“ A MOTHER’S TREASURE IS ALWAY’S HER DAUGHTER’
And we will do the impossible to protect her that’s for dam sure , so I thought I had all the answers and solutions to everything but , not for a broken heart </3 I remember the day very clearly I went in her room and I had noticed she was avoiding everyone at the house she’s normally a hermit crab and stays in her room for long periods of time but that day she did not come down to even eat , I finally was done with my chores and I go to her room and find her crying hopelessly my heart felt to the ground I didn’t know what to say but I had figured it had to do with her boyfriend and she told me that her boyfriend broke up with her ….
As a mother I wanted to go find him and tell him off and how dare he break her heart , she just told me to hold her to hold her really tight and that she just wants this pain to go away and this was something that I wasn’t capable of doing I had no control over this is something she had to mend on her own , I was there for her in every way that I could but she had to find her way cause it’s not like I could go to school with her and follow her around everywhere and find this boy and make his life a living hell well I did give him a piece of my mind , through out the course of her heart break she did fall into a bit of a dark depression and I was very concerned about it but in do time she got the point that it’s no use moping around and feeling depressed after so much talk and reasoning with her I was so glad that realized that she was so much better than that , I mean I remember my 1st heartbreak it took forever to get over but I’ll never forget it cause it was my 1st ever heart break and I put myself in her shoes and here I am expecting her to get over it within a week trust me this heartbreak was my heartbreak too ……
She finally focused on something that would keep her busy and happy well she did go back with him and about a year later she realized he wasn’t for her I was so proud of my baby because she was making hard adult decisions that I know was hard for her but she did it because she values herself and her worth and that no one will ever take that away from her and I fought her that “ME” she saw how her father treated me and by me letting that happen its like if that was ok and no way no how I wanted this story to repeat itself , I told her she will fall in love again to a looser boy and to keep dating and to not just settle but to alway keep in mimd that her goals and dreams come first , she reminds me a lot like myself she loves to Love , you know when I had her in my arms when the nurse gave her to me when she was born I whispered in her ears and told her mommy loves you and I will always protect you, 19 yrs later I have kept my promise and will continue to do so …..
If your a new parent this something that you will eventually have to face and what I can say is just be there for them and show them the positive of life and keep pushing them to be a better person and that they don’t need anybody that doesn’t need them .
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