Ok Ladies don’t always assume but ever get that gut feeling that something isn’t right with your Boo ?? and he’s either acting kinda weird too nice or just being a total jerk and the fact that he isn’t giving you the attention that your used to getting and for some reason his story’s just don’t add up these men have us all playing Detective and adding the clues checking his phone and there you have it that one text that confirms your doubts yep he’s totally cheating .
When a man cheats he is not thinking at the time of the act well yes he is but he’s not giving a F$#@&K and he’s willing to deal with it later after its been done or he hopes that he doesn’t get caught and that’s another story I can write a book about it maybe I am already “winky face” .
Here are some sure signs that your Man is cheating on you and whether you are married , or just live together or even if its a brand new relationship keep these signs in mind .
HE STARTS DRESSING BETTER- This sign can be a bit tricky because maybe he just really want’s to dress better for you or to better him self but what about if he wears all those outfits but not when he’s with you what if one day you were doing laundry and that new dress shirt is already dirty I know you can’t help it your gonna smell the shirt and if there is a scent that you are not familiar with then I would be worried .
GUARDING THE CELL PHONE – And this one is a no brainer because if he has nothing to hide then why is his phone on silent and why is he being sneaky when he answer’s a text or runs to the bathroom to make a quick call , if you are going to confront him about his phone and ask him to let you see his phone good luck with that and may the force be with you cause as soon as he tells you No your going to be sneaky about it and find out the worse way .
HE MAKES HURTFUL REMARKS ABOUT YOU – All of the sudden he explodes on you picking fights with you all the time and for some reason everything is all your fault he is easily manipulating you making you feel guilty for everything.
HE DOESN'”T WANT TO BE INTIMATE WITH YOU ANYMORE OR THE SEX HAS BEEN NOT SO MUCH- It could very be that he’s been getting it from someone else . Be careful when confronting him about your doubts and there is no bigger man than a man that tells the truth and being honest is the best policy dealing with a cheater is no joke .
Asking yourself if this relationship can even be saved well that’s something that your gonna have to decide and be smart about it and be strong ” No matter how much you care some people don’t deserve you A heart broken is a lesson learned and nothing hurts more than realizing he meant everything to you ,but nothing to him.
~Don’t be afraid to loose what wasn’t meant to Be ~